How You Can Improve Yourself With Very Less Efforts In Next Few Months

Improving yourself in next few months sounds like huge claim doesn't it? Wrong... Improving yourself in the next few months with very less efforts is not a big deal. It's easier than what you think. My life has totally changed while going through these process.

But before excepting this challenge, my top fears were :

(a) I was feared about my career -  The thought which strikes my mind was about my career i.e. What I will do ahead, Can I get a job or not, If I fail What people will think about myself etc.

(b) Health Issue -  My fear was also regarding my health. I always had a fear that my health will be well all the time or not.

(c) Building Up A Relationship -  I was also feared that I could get married/children. My fear was that how can I give them a good lifestyle if I don't earn a decent income. If these fail how can I build up a strong relationship?

(d) Becoming A People Leader - I was also feared about my leadership qualities. How can I gain that leadership quality and positive attitude to become a peoples leader? If these fail how can I help others.

Thus, I worked hard and overcome these fears in the past few months.

Here are the steps I've gone through:

1. Give a Kick To Your Fear

All of you have fears just like me which I have shared with you just above. You probably have your own list of fears. Your fear can be related to your career, public speaking or it can be just anything.

All your fears keep you in the same position and prevent you from growing. Try to figure out your fears and work on them. Always think of fear as a compass for growth. Always try to be honest with yourself and acknowledge your fear.

Write down your fears and think that will it affect you. If your answer is No just kick it out but if its Yes then try to work on them. Follow the above-mentioned points and you will see the difference in the next few months.

 

2.  Stop Giving A Damm

This point is just similar to the first one. Just don't waste your time and energy on unnecessary things which are uncertain and not relevant to your career.

Don't bring useless thought in your mind that what would happen next if I change in my career, will I get a job, can I get success or not. These thoughts are common and only strikes to those whose mind gets distracted.

So, stop giving a damm from today and work for your present. If your present is good your future will be better.

3. Reduce Everything

This is the most crucial things which you have to follow if you want to improve yourself in the next few months. Reduce the things which you think is unnecessary for your life.

• Reduce your Social Media Usages, Netflix, Prime Video etc.

•  Divorce your friend zone which you thinks demotivates you, pull your legs down when you do something good, distract your mind etc.   

•  Give a cut to your expense zone. I mean to say that cut down your unnecessary expenses, things that don't serve your primary goals.

• Reduce your belonging by 30%. Doing this you can convert your time and work to achieve your primary goals.

4. Follow One thing Which You Want To Achieve

Don't try to work on several goals. Not several just focus on one. Give your time and starting working on your goal. At first, try to make it easy so that it becomes easy for you to achieve your goal. Going this way will boost up your confidence and you can go through a long run. After achieving one just move towards the next. This way you can improve yourself and achieve everything you've ever wanted.

5. Commit To Discipline 

Alcoholic? Stop Drinking.
Smoking too much? Quit Smoking.
Bored with your job and your Boss? Start your new one and be your own boss. 
Friends Dragging you down? Get Rid & Divorce them.

No one can change your life unless you commit to discipline and bring thoughts into action. This will help you in taking action towards your goal and you can easily judge which one is good and bad for you. Discipline makes you matured and your thoughts towards your goal changes. So, commit discipline to yourself and you will notice a huge difference in your regular activities.

Commit to Discipline

 6. Keep On Reading

Many of your answers will come from reading books. Don't try to waste your time on Netflix, social media instead of that, you can get some books related to your problems. I mean to say that try to read some books on problems you are suffering with and want to solve them. You can only learn from others mistakes and experiences. No one will tell you these things because you know well that people are jealous of your work, success.

7. Get Out Of Your Phone 

I think that this will be a big one for you. Just delete your social media applications, games, and all the unnecessary applications. Block all your notifications excepts messages and incoming calls.

Life is short. It becomes effortless only when you're in control which will come only when you focused on your goals and working on them.

8. Just Ask Why

You are human and you need a perfect reason for doing any work. Yeah, You guessed me right. Just ask yourself two questions when you are performing any task. i.e. What are you doing and why are you doing. Your answer should have that perfect region for that task and believe me guys if you can get a perfect answer to your question you can achieve your goal in very less time.

  
9. Spend Some Money For Future 

Most of you (even me) just want to save money for the future. You and I just don't want to waste our money and our main motive is to save money so that it can be invested in future. Friends, this should not be the case. If you want to win in your life, you have to invest in your future. 

Try to buy some courses on personal development and attend some events, buy books which can really help you out, try for some long-term funds(fixed deposit, recurring deposit) which can be withdrawal after 5 years. Doing this you can have a huge fund for your future.

Always remember that if you want to achieve something you have to lose something. There is a Hindi tagline for this: "Kuch Paane Ke Liye Kuch Khona Parta Hai" 

10. Just Forget What People Think of You 

Most of you just don't start because of other thoughts. You always think that if I do this what others will say. Guys, do remember you are not doing for them or you are not responsible for others future. 

It's your life and God has given you full freedom. So just keep those thoughts out and proceed with your work. Just stay focused and keep going, your success will make you stand.

11. Take An Example from Past

Its common that people get demotivate from past incidents. You think that if my past is bad I can't do well in the future and you keep dreaming. Guys, people will not judge you by your past. Yeah, what you can do is take an example from your past work for that in present and your future will be rocking.

Just you need is to bring positivity in your thoughts and keep working. Do remember, success takes time.

 

Final Talk 

At last, I want to end up this topic by saying you that improving yourself with very less effort is not a huge task. You just need to change your mind and bring your thoughts in actions. Following the above-mentioned points will really help you in improving yourself with very less efforts in the next few months. Doing these you will notice a huge change in yourself.

Hope you will improve yourself in the next few months after going through this article.

Keep Going & All the Best for your Future!


Also Read:

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